1. He creates safety, not just sparks. 2. His words match his actions—consistently. 3. He doesn’t let you wonder. He makes it known. 4. He protects your emotions, not just your body. 5. He listens to understand, not just to respond. 6. He takes accountability without ego. 7. He plans a future with your peace in mind. 8. He respects your boundaries—and honors them. 9. He wants to know your mind, not just your body. 10. He shows up in discomfort, not just desire. 11. He gives without scorekeeping.