TAGLE: If you don't have the luxury of getting to say goodbye face to face or in real time or at all, Byrnes says you could and should still partake in your own rituals to acknowledge your grief.

MOUNT VERNON, N.Y. — Several hundred people, including teammates from the 1969 “Miracle Mets,” remembered Tommie Agee yesterday ... to Bellevue Hospital but could not resuscitate him.